March 23, 2008

Holidays Tips - Reduce Your Stress During the Holidays

by Nicole Mendari

The holidays can be a time of year stressful for everyone. Some people are stressed out by the sheer volume of things that must be done, such as shopping, cooking and decorating. For others, the events with their families may cause a lot of stress. Regardless of what creates stress for you, take time to relax, to rejuvenate and relax so you can enjoy a peaceful and joyful holiday season.

If you are concerned about having too much to do and not enough time to do it, sit down and make a Christmas to the task list. Include your spouse and children in the planning process for holidays, and try to delegate tasks to the entire world to help make things simpler and more free time. Even the youngest children can do much to help mom and dad for the holidays including picking up your room and behave. Older children and adolescents are able to do a little more. If you have a teen-age driving home, and you have to take deliveries, mail Christmas cards, or run errands for you.

Be realistic in your planning. If you know it generally takes you most of the day to do your Christmas decorating, don't try to cram it all into a morning or afternoon session. And most importantly, don't over schedule yourself and try to do too much in one day. Schedule in time to read a book, take a hot bath, or get to bed early.

You may also consider hiring professional help during the holidays. If you know who is taking the company, but simply do not have the time to do it yourself, your home, hire a cleaning service to come and help. We believe it is a first gift of Christmas for you. Even if only a service to big jobs and the smallest things you do later, we have saved time and effort in the process.

If spending time with the members of your extended family creates stress for you, consider bowing out of the party. After all, vacations are supposed to be peaceful and joyful. It is highly likely that if you family is in turmoil in the rest of the year that will happen during the holidays too. Try to make alternate plans with the members of your support system, such as friends or other relatives. If you attend, expect to see this strong support system to browse, and if things become strained, call one night and come home as soon as possible. It is not necessary to tolerate an intolerable situation that will cause your stress levels to skyrocket. As another level, consider donating your time in a local soup kitchen, homeless shelter or nursing home, all those who appreciate a helping hand and an ear of support during the holidays.

Most importantly, listen to your body. If you start feeling signs of stress, such as headaches and body aches, anxiety and insomnia, which is your signal to stop and take things easier. Back on activities, get help with homework or projects, and take a little time for some deep breathing exercises and walking.

If you take care of yourself, you should be able to take care of things on your list, your family and holiday season as well.

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